Scorpio; in a nutshell.

For Scorpios love is an all or nothing experience. There are no half-measures with them when wooing the partner of their dreams. If you are dating a Scorpio man get ready to be completely swept off your feet. He is sure to go the whole length of wining and dining you besides landing the most amazing gifts in your lap. The same goes for a Scorpio woman who is as much capable of blowing you away with the intensity and depth of her emotions. Love is for a Scorpio is a throbbing, blood red passion and they can go about their love lives with a fierce single-mindedness if they believe they have found a soul-mate.

The flip side of a Scorpio lover’s intensity is an excess which can overwhelm a more sedate partner. While this trait seems flattering in the early stages of a relationship, after a while an emotional life which is perpetually high strung may become difficult to enjoy. To the Scorpio lover, love is an all-consuming passion. Not only do they take their love life very seriously, but they expect their partner to reciprocate their feelings with the same white heat intensity. This is likely to scare away or at least unnerve partners who are less comfortable with such overwhelming emotions.

Also don’t expect a Scorpio in love to share all their feelings and emotions with you. For a sign which feels and believes with such intensity, they are notoriously secretive. Unlike a Cancerian for whom love means emotional intimacy and exchange, a Scorpio is more likely to hide their thoughts and feelings behind a deliberate and enigmatic exterior. This trait makes it difficult for a partner to get to know the real person behind the passionate lover. A Scorpio partner does not disclose him or herself lightly, which stems from a great fear of being controlled. Being private is their way to exercise control over themselves and their situation. This brings us to another pertinent point about a Scorpio in love – their desire to be the one in control in a relationship. Scorpio is reputed as a controlling sign, driven to dominate and master. So in a relationship with a Scorpio, you may find your partner assuming the position of the decision-maker more than once.

At the outset you must be emotionally and physically strong to keep up with the demands of a complex lover like that of a Scorpio. These are partners who are not easy to understand or know and sex with them is hardly a means of cementing romantic ties. For a Scorpio love and lust have nothing to do with each other and you may find to your chagrin that after a night of passionate love-making, your Scorpio is quite OK with saying goodbye. However if your Scorpio has chosen you for a mate, it means that you need to be completely loyal to them. A Scorpio does not tolerates anything in half-measures; so unless you are sure you want your partner for keeps, try not to get too close to them.

Scorpios are prone to extreme fits of jealousy when they assume that their partners are seeing others or even having a good time without them. This is not so much a reflection of their immaturity or lack of self-assurance as a consequence of their intense natures. It is as though they need to possess every aspect of a partner’s life as much as they need to possess their hearts and bodies. And should your Scorpio partner find out that you have been cheating on him/her, take care. The Scorpio sting of revenge is legendary and exceedingly venomous. So if you are someone who likes his/her personal space and does not take kindly to possessiveness, perhaps you should steer clear of this sign.

Finally it is good to remember that Scorpios are well known for their powers of perception. They can see right through you into what lies hidden in your heart which gives them an immense advantage of other people in their lives. While a Scorpio is not averse to exploiting your weaknesses to his/her advantage, on the plus side, he/she can be a huge support –urging you to make use of your strengths and live to your full potential.

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